Amber Linn's Memaw
This is the story about a
beautiful little girl named Amber Linn.
She is my
granddaughter. I will never forget the night
when we found out Amber was on the way. When we
were told that the test came out positive, I
headed for our daughter's bedroom, and my
husband was right behind me. When Heather,
sitting there on the chair, saw us we all
hugged. She said, " I am sorry". We kissed her
and told her that we would be here for her no
matter what lay ahead of her. Scared? Oh yes!
Very scared, our little girl was now going to be
a mommy. That is a big responsibility for a
young girl. And from the look on her face I know
she was scared too. But I never heard her
complain, she knew that she had to start growing
up very fast. Heather did want to finish High
School. And we wanted her to at least get her
High School Diploma. So she signed up in a home
school course 3 days a week for about 3-4- hours
per day. I drove 25 miles a day round trip to
their apartment to drive her to school. Then I
dropped her off and I waited for her to finish
at my home. I then drove to pick her up, and
drove her back to her apartment. This went on
for a little over a month. Then Chris told her
she would never finish High School. I didn't say
anything at the time, but I thought, "We'll see".
She didn't go back to home school though until
1995. I will finish telling about her graduation
on the other page about Heather. On a Friday, at
the end of October 1993, Heather had an
appointment with her doctor. She was going to
have an ultrasound to find out what the sex of
the baby was. Chris wasn't here so I went with
her. I was there to share in her excitement when
the doctor said it was a girl. Heather was very
excited as she really wanted a little girl.
After we left the doctor's office, you can guess
where we went. To a baby store. I told her I
wanted to get her a pink outfit and I did, from
the headband, to socks, to the dress. (All
pink). Then I told her to pick out some things
and I would get them for her little girl. My
husband and I were supposed to "Celebrate" our
25th anniversary on February 9,1994. We received
our first gift on February 8th when our grandson
Quinton, Scott's son, entered the world. Then on
February 20,1994, Heather's little girl Amber
came. It was a very long weekend. Heather had 46
hours of labor she had endured. But on Sunday,
February 20, 1994, at 5:00 pm Amber Linn entered
the world. I cried because I was so happy that
my little 16 year old daughter wasn't in pain
any more. That is a very hard thing for a
parent, when their child is in pain or hurting.
We never discussed with Heather what name she
was going to put on the Birth Certificate. She
was alone when the nurse came into her room and
she filled out the papers. She put Amber Linn
Lequieu on the papers. The next day Heather and
Amber came home. She was greeted by her new
cousin Quinton, who was now a whole 12 days
older than she was. She was also greeted by her
great-grandparents and her Uncle Arliss
(he died
3 weeks later) and her Aunt Jean came by also.
Heather went ahead and cared for her daughter in
our home. My husband and I worked and we
provided for our granddaughter. And I don't
regret one single penny. When Amber and Quinton
were together we had so much fun. They were just
like twins. When we decided because of 2 new
grandkids, we would need a new video camera to
tape them, we had so much fun doing it, watching
them grow. Heather was such a good Mommy. And
Amber Linn was crazy about her Mommy. She was a
real Mommy's girl. When I came home from work,
Heather had the house all cleaned up and all the
laundry done. She would play with Amber and have
her in her swing or playpen. She would play
children's music and sing to her. I want to say
that Heather was not playing house. She took her
Mommy responsabilities very serious. But she had
fun with her little girl too. She would read to
her alot and get her new books all the time.
Believe me, Amber Linn had alot of books. Alot
of them belonged to Heather when she was a
little girl. Amber laughed and had so much fun
with her Mommy and anyone who came to our house.
She was such a good little girl. Our family had
so much fun when Quinton would come to visit.
When Scott would drive up , Heather would run
out to the truck and they would trade babies and
when it was time to go they would give the right
baby to the right parent. Now that was alot of
fun to watch. Boy do I miss seeing that happen.
The very first time that we took Amber out of
town was to visit Uncle Scotty when he was
working as a fireman for the state by Santa
Cruz. She was only 3 months old. Heather really
enjoyed getting out of town, especially since it
was at the coast. Amber was so good on the trip.
She was cooing and smiling alot. By now Amber
was turning over, and she had to be watched
every minute. But that didn't upset Heather. She
watched her very closely. Then she started
crawling and Heather would put her in her
playpen while she cleaned, did the laundry or
whatever she had to do. Then came the days of
snacks, Cheerios, etc... Amber would jabber words
that only a mother could understand. We would
say to Heather, "What did she say?" , Heather
would reply, "Well can't you understand her? I
can". Heather would just laugh and we would too.
Heather would put Amber in her high chair and
fix dinner. She would sing silly songs or let
Amber listen to some songs on one of her little
kids tapes. I came home to dinner and my husband
would come home right after that. Amber would
eat Cheerios or some other treat while her Mommy
would fix dinner. She would get so excited to
see me and my husband come through the back
door. Another thing as she started getting
around was watching her trying to catch out
little dog Mollie. She called her "Maw-ee". She
also loved her Uncle Scotty's Border Collie Ski.
She would laugh when she would see him do
tricks. In July 1994, we took her to Oregon to
visit her great Aunt Sue and Uncle Tommy. That
was a very nice vacation. Heather and Amber
stayed with their cousins. Amber was so spoiled
while staying there. She was only 6 months old,
and her second cousin Debbie bought her a
walker. Heather put her in it, and within a few
minutes she was going backwards. Then forwards,
and sideways, and oh no, everywhere. Her Mommy
lost control from that time on. Ha! She was such
a good little traveler. We would only have to
stop about 4 or 5 times to let her little body
rest. And ours too. Back at our house great
Grandma and Grandpa Nored would have to see her
at least once a day, just in case she might have
grown an 1/8 of an inch or so. Ha! They really
loved her. That was great Grandpa's "Tooter
Gal". And boy did she love to see them too. She
always knew when we drove up to their house. She
grew up to be bigger and she also grew to like
something new too. "ICED TEA". Between her great
Grandpa Nored and her Uncle Tommy, they had
contests to see who could get her to drink the
most from their glass. She didn't want her own
glass, she only wanted to drink from theirs.
Birthdays and Christmas were alot of fun.
Heather would tell her about Heaven and Jesus.
She learned to say her bedtime prayers. She was
so happy when rewarded for telling her Mommy she
had to go potty and then used the big girl
potty. She giggled so cute. I could really write
a book on Amber Linn and the joy she brought to
our home.She was the sweetest and best behaved
little granddaughter that I could have ever ask
for. Amber Linn..... I uv-ooh and miss
you.....
HUGS! Memaw
"Thank you Donna"
~Midi playing~ Always
Made With Love
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